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Find the Right Attorney, Get Their Best Work, Assess Your Own Blindspots, and Know Exactly When to Walk Away.

Find the Right Attorney, Get Their Best Work, Assess Your Own Blindspots, and Know Exactly When to Walk Away.

Find the Right Attorney, Get Their Best Work, Assess Your Own Blindspots, and Know Exactly When to Walk Away.

This is the inside read on how to hire the right attorney, get their best work,
and know when to walk away.

This is the inside read on how to hire the right attorney, get their best work, and know when to walk away.

This is the inside read on how to hire the right attorney, get their best work,
and know when to walk away.

You are the paycheck.

You are the paycheck.

You are the paycheck.

Nobody has ever taught you how to make one of the most important decisions of your life: choosing the person who will protect your money, your kids, and your future.

I worked in an industry where the lawyers did not necessarily
have the client's best interests in mind.

I worked in an industry where the lawyers did not necessarily
have the client's best interests in mind.

I worked in an industry where the lawyers did not necessarily have the client's best interests in mind.

Your case is not won or lost in the courtroom. 90-95% of divorces settle outside the courtroom. Who you hire and how they navigate the process matters far more than any day in front of a judge. The people who come out intact hired the right person, worked with them the right way, and knew when to walk.

The Program

The Program

11 videos. 3 acts.
1 relationship that decides everything.

11 videos. 3 acts.
1 relationship that decides everything.

11 videos. 3 acts. 1 relationship that decides everything.

Hire the right person. Get their best work. Know when to leave.
Watch it in about an hour, and then come back to it when the time is right.

Hire the right person. Get their best work. Know when to leave.
Watch it in about an hour, and then come back to it when the time is right.

ACT ONE

Hire Smart

See past the polished salesman and understand why the aggressive bulldog is rarely the attorney you need.

3 VIDEOS

01

The Consult Is a Sales Meeting

"That does not make them a bad lawyer. It makes them a normal one."

02

Local Beats Aggressive Every Time

"An excellent attorney two hours away is worth less than a solid one across the street from the courthouse."

03

Ask the Right Questions, Then Sign Smart

"Do not ask what your best outcome is. Ask what this looks like if you do not settle."

ACT TWO

Understand the Relationship

How to get the most out of your attorney, what to say, what never to say, and how to read whether they are doing the job.

5 VIDEOS

04

Your Expectations Will Cost You

"Calm men come out on top. And they save their money doing it."

05

Do Your Part, and Tell the Truth

"The honest fact given early is a tool. The same fact surfaced later is a weapon."

06

Is Your Lawyer Behind, or Just Busy?

"Silence by itself tells you nothing. Silence measured against a deadline tells you everything."

07

Talk to Your Lawyer Like You Are on the Same Team

"The damage is not that they get defensive. It is that they stop caring."

08

Make Them Want to Fight for You

"You cannot make your lawyer care. But you can make them want to."

ACT THREE

Know When to Walk

When it is your lawyer's fault, when you need to take accountability, and how to leave without torching your case.

3 VIDEOS

09

Trust the Read, or Leave

"Half the time firing is justified. The other half, it is the client."

10

The Optics of Switching

"By the third lawyer, the story is not about your spouse anymore. It is about you."

11

Make the Switch, and Take the Wheel

"The discipline is not secrecy. It is sequencing."

ACT ONE

Hire Smart

See past the polished salesman and understand why the aggressive bulldog is rarely the attorney you need.

3 VIDEOS

01

The Consult Is a Sales Meeting

"That does not make them a bad lawyer. It makes them a normal one."

02

Local Beats Aggressive Every Time

"An excellent attorney two hours away is worth less than a solid one across the street from the courthouse."

03

Ask the Right Questions, Then Sign Smart

"Do not ask what your best outcome is. Ask what this looks like if you do not settle."

ACT TWO

Understand the Relationship

How to get the most out of your attorney, what to say, what never to say, and how to read whether they are doing the job.

5 VIDEOS

04

Your Expectations Will Cost You

"Calm men come out on top. And they save their money doing it."

05

Do Your Part, and Tell the Truth

"The honest fact given early is a tool. The same fact surfaced later is a weapon."

06

Is Your Lawyer Behind, or Just Busy?

"Silence by itself tells you nothing. Silence measured against a deadline tells you everything."

07

Talk to Your Lawyer Like You Are on the Same Team

"The damage is not that they get defensive. It is that they stop caring."

08

Make Them Want to Fight for You

"You cannot make your lawyer care. But you can make them want to."

ACT THREE

Know When to Walk

When it is your lawyer\'s fault, when you need to take accountability, and how to leave without torching your case.

3 VIDEOS

09

Trust the Read, or Leave

"Half the time firing is justified. The other half, it is the client."

10

The Optics of Switching

"By the third lawyer, the story is not about your spouse anymore. It is about you."

11

Make the Switch, and Take the Wheel

"The discipline is not secrecy. It is sequencing."

The Complete Program

The Complete Program

Consult Checklist

Consult Checklist

Everything you need to ask when meeting with a potential attorney.

Lawyer Scorecard

Lawyer Scorecard

An interactive assessment of your attorney's performance.

Switching Attorneys

Switching Attorneys

Determining whether switching attorneys is in your best interest.

AI Assistant

AI Assistant

An AI chat bot ready to help you beyond the program.

Consult Checklist

Everything you need to ask when meeting with a potential attorney.

Lawyer Scorecard

An interactive assessment of your attorney's performance.

Switching Attorneys

Determining whether switching attorneys is in your best interest.

AI Assistant

An AI chat bot ready to help you beyond the program.

BEFORE YOU GO FURTHER

BEFORE YOU GO FURTHER

Read this part honestly.

Read this part honestly.

Read this part honestly.

Read this part honestly.

This program is built for you if….

This program is built for you if….

+ You are thinking about separation 

+ You are thinking about separation 

+ You have already separated but have not hired an attorney

+ You have already separated but have not hired an attorney

+ You have been served with divorce or custody paperwork 

+ You have been served with divorce or custody paperwork 

+ You are having trouble choosing your divorce attorney 

+ You are having trouble choosing your divorce attorney 

+ You want your divorce attorney to fight for you like his own family 

+ You want your divorce attorney to fight for you like his own family 

+ You are wondering whether your lawyer is doing their job

+ You are wondering whether your lawyer is doing their job

+ You are wondering what impact your behavior has had in the litigation 

+ You are wondering what impact your behavior has had in the litigation 

+ You are considering switching attorneys but you don’t know if it's the right move  

+ You are considering switching attorneys but you don’t know if it's the right move  

This program is not built for you if….

− You want legal advice pertaining to your divorce 

− You want legal advice pertaining to your divorce 

− You think you know what you are doing 

− You think you know what you are doing 

− You think you can handle your divorce without an attorney

− You think you can handle your divorce without an attorney

− You think the loudest, most aggressive attorney is best

− You think the loudest, most aggressive attorney is best

− You don’t want to take any accountability and blame your lawyer 

− You don’t want to take any accountability and blame your lawyer 

− You want to end up on the losing side of your divorce 

− You want to end up on the losing side of your divorce 

ONE TIME PAYMENT. LIFETIME ACCESS.

ONE TIME PAYMENT.
LIFETIME ACCESS.

COMPLETE PROGRAM · LIFETIME ACCESS

Item

Value

Act One · Hire Smart, three videos

$450

Act Two · Understand the Relationship, five videos

$750

Act Three · Know When to Walk, three videos

$450

The Inside Read Coach, private AI assistant

$450

The Digital Playbook

$450

The Consult Checklist

$450

Is your Lawyer Doing the Job? Scoreboard

$450

The Switch Checklist

$450

Lifetime Access, Every Future Update

$200

Total value

$4,100

$

200

Instant access. Watch the first act tonight.

Instant access.
Watch the first act tonight.

I have been the lawyer and the client.

I have been the lawyer and the
client.

I built one of the most successful divorce practices in  in the DC Metropolitan area, starting on my own two years out of law school and running it for twenty five years. I ran the consults. I tried the multi day cases. I saw every fact pattern, every client, every lawyer, every judge. I also went through my own high conflict divorce that gave me perspective I could pass on to clients then and now.

25

YEARS OF DIVORCE LITIGATION

2000+

CASES

I have been the lawyer and the client.

I built one of the most successful divorce practices in  in the DC Metropolitan area, starting on my own two years out of law school and running it for twenty five years.

I ran the consults. I tried the multi day cases. I saw every fact pattern, every client, every lawyer, every judge. I also went through my own high conflict divorce that gave me perspective I could pass on to clients then and now.

25

YEARS OF DIVORCE LITIGATION

2000+

CASES

I have been the lawyer and the client.

I built one of the most successful divorce practices in  in the DC Metropolitan area, starting on my own two years out of law school and running it for twenty five years. I ran the consults. I tried the multi day cases. I saw every fact pattern, every client, every lawyer, every judge. I also went through my own high conflict divorce that gave me perspective I could pass on to clients then and now.

25

YEARS OF DIVORCE LITIGATION

2000+

CASES

FAQs

01

Is this legal advice?

02

What does a divorce concierge actually do?

03

Why does the psychology matter? I just need to know what to do.

04

I already hired someone. Is it too late?

05

I am not divorcing yet. I am just thinking about it.

07

What exactly is the AI Assistant?

Is this legal advice?

What does a divorce concierge actually do?

Why does the psychology matter? I just need to know what to do.

I already hired someone. Is it too late?

I am not divorcing yet. I am just thinking about it.

What exactly is the AI Assistant?

No lawyer is ever going to tell you

the things in this program.

No lawyer is ever going to tell you

the things in this program.

No lawyer is ever going to tell you

the things in this program.

You have far more control over your representation than you ever realized. At every stage of this, you are steering. Most people find that out on the way out. You can find out now.

You have far more control over your representation than you ever realized. At every stage of this, you are steering. Most people find that out on the way out. You can find out now.

You have far more control over your representation than you ever realized. At every stage of this, you are steering. Most people find that out on the way out. You can find out now.

Spencer Hecht | Divorce Concierge

Spencer M. Hecht is a divorce consultant. He is not acting as an attorney in this work, does not provide legal advice, and does not represent anyone in a legal matter. Nothing in this program or on this page creates an attorney client relationship, and none of it is a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction. All references to prior legal practice describe past professional experience.

Copyright © SPENCER HECHT 2026

Spencer Hecht | Divorce Concierge

Spencer M. Hecht is a divorce consultant. He is not acting as an attorney in this work, does not provide legal advice, and does not represent anyone in a legal matter. Nothing in this program or on this page creates an attorney client relationship, and none of it is a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction. All references to prior legal practice describe past professional experience.

Copyright © SPENCER HECHT 2026

Spencer Hecht | Divorce Concierge

Spencer M. Hecht is a divorce consultant. He is not acting as an attorney in this work, does not provide legal advice, and does not represent anyone in a legal matter. Nothing in this program or on this page creates an attorney client relationship, and none of it is a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction. All references to prior legal practice describe past professional experience.

Copyright © SPENCER HECHT 2026

Spencer Hecht | Divorce Concierge

Spencer M. Hecht is a divorce consultant. He is not acting as an attorney in this work, does not provide legal advice, and does not represent anyone in a legal matter. Nothing in this program or on this page creates an attorney client relationship, and none of it is a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction. All references to prior legal practice describe past professional experience.

Copyright © SPENCER HECHT 2026