25 Years | 2,000+ Cases | My Own Divorce

Your Divorce Gets Decided Before You
Ever Hire a Lawyer.

Your Divorce Gets Decided Before You
Ever Hire a Lawyer.

I will help you navigate your separation, avoid damages, and maintain your wealth

I'll help you avoid the conflict, the legal bills, and the mistakes
that come from moving too fast

I'll help you avoid the conflict, the legal bills, and the mistakes that come from moving too fast

I will help you navigate your separation, avoid damages, and maintain your wealth

Step 1: Start Here

Step 2: Book Your Session

Process

How it works?

You book the consult

You tell me where

things stand

We map out the window

We cover what's ahead, the decisions that matter most, and how to avoid unnecessary conflict

You Get a Strategy Moving Forward

A clear plan to keep this low conflict and civil, and whether my help is needed going forward

Right now, no one around you is neutral.

Every person you’re talking to has a stake in what you decide.

Best Friend

Wants your company. Not your clarity.

Family

Biased no matter what you decide.

Therapist

A paid cheerleader, once a week.

The Lawyer

Billing for the conflict.

Social Media

Says you’re better off without them.

You

Can’t think clearly right now. No one can.

The result: money spent. More conflict. Reactive texts. Decisions you weren’t ready to make.

THE WINDOW

The Window is the time between realizing your marriage is over and sitting in a divorce attorney’s office. It starts before the separation conversation ever happens. This is the moment you still have the most control over how your divorce goes.

Marriage is over

Marriage is over

Lawyer hired

Lawyer hired

Divorced

Divorced

What I do for you during The Window

1

Set the sequence

What to do first. What to do second. What not to do yet.

2

Control the record

What to put in writing. What to leave unsaid.

3

Lower the temperature

Keep it from turning into a war neither of you can win.

4

Prepare the handoff

Walk in with the right lawyer found and a plan already set.

Less money spent. A lower-conflict divorce. Peace on the other side.

Nobody Knows This Better Than I Do

I spent 25 years as a divorce attorney. I handled 2,000+ cases. There's almost no fact pattern I haven't already seen. Including my own."

Everything here is strategic guidance, not legal advice.

I’m the one person in your life with no stake in your outcome.

Book your consult

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What happens in your session

One Hour

One on one, focused entirely on your situation. Not a webinar. Not a script.

A Sequence

You leave knowing what to do first, what to do second, and what not to do yet.

A Next Step

If it makes sense, we talk about the 30-day Concierge for ongoing guidance.

Testimonials

Reviews from my years as a divorce attorney

I definitely recommend Spencer Hecht. He is very responsive and extremely knowledgeable.

I definitely recommend Spencer Hecht. He is very responsive and extremely knowledgeable.

Mr. Hecht is very detail oriented and stayed engaged throughout the entire divorce process. His attention to each issue that was of the most importance ensured that the final settlement agreement was fair. I recommend Mr. Hecht as an advocate for a fair settlement that requires little court time for both parties.

Mr. Hecht is very detail oriented and stayed engaged throughout the entire divorce process. His attention to each issue that was of the most importance ensured that the final settlement agreement was fair. I recommend Mr. Hecht as an advocate for a fair settlement that requires little court time for both parties.

I love Spencer Hecht. He has a no nonsense approach. He is tough, and tells it like it is. He is knowledgeable and can handle very tough divorce/custody cases. Our custody case wasn't ease because of the mental illness issues of my husbands ex-wife. Spencer was able to see through her BS and do what was best for my step-son. I would highly recommend him!

I love Spencer Hecht. He has a no nonsense approach. He is tough, and tells it like it is. He is knowledgeable and can handle very tough divorce/custody cases. Our custody case wasn't ease because of the mental illness issues of my husbands ex-wife. Spencer was able to see through her BS and do what was best for my step-son. I would highly recommend him!

He was very professional and was responsive. He helped me get the best-case scenario in my divorce.

He was very professional and was responsive. He helped me get the best-case scenario in my divorce.

I am extremely grateful for all your help and bearing with me through everything! You are a wonderful, loyal person and besides, you are an excellent, caring and very professional lawyer. Words cannot express how grateful I am for all you have done. I wanted to give you my sincere thanks once again for your incredible determination and tenacity during my case. If your looking for a lawyer that will fight for your case please contact Spencer Hecht he is outstanding lawyer.

I am extremely grateful for all your help and bearing with me through everything! You are a wonderful, loyal person and besides, you are an excellent, caring and very professional lawyer. Words cannot express how grateful I am for all you have done. I wanted to give you my sincere thanks once again for your incredible determination and tenacity during my case. If your looking for a lawyer that will fight for your case please contact Spencer Hecht he is outstanding lawyer.

He is so intelligent, knowledgably, and capable of commanding a room-l had no idea at first! A good friend of mine recommended him as a friend. He won our case by a landslide on 24 hour notice!

He is so intelligent, knowledgably, and capable of commanding a room-l had no idea at first! A good friend of mine recommended him as a friend. He won our case by a landslide on 24 hour notice!

I definitely recommend Spencer Hecht. He is very responsive and extremely knowledgeable.

I love Spencer Hecht. He has a no nonsense approach. He is tough, and tells it like it is. He is knowledgeable and can handle very tough divorce/custody cases. Our custody case wasn't ease because of the mental illness issues of my husbands ex-wife. Spencer was able to see through her BS and do what was best for my step-son. I would highly recommend him!

I am extremely grateful for all your help and bearing with me through everything! You are a wonderful, loyal person and besides, you are an excellent, caring and very professional lawyer. Words cannot express how grateful I am for all you have done. I wanted to give you my sincere thanks once again for your incredible determination and tenacity during my case. If your looking for a lawyer that will fight for your case please contact Spencer Hecht he is outstanding lawyer.

Mr. Hecht is very detail oriented and stayed engaged throughout the entire divorce process. His attention to each issue that was of the most importance ensured that the final settlement agreement was fair. I recommend Mr. Hecht as an advocate for a fair settlement that requires little court time for both parties.

He was very professional and was responsive. He helped me get the best-case scenario in my divorce.

He is so intelligent, knowledgably, and capable of commanding a room-l had no idea at first! A good friend of mine recommended him as a friend. He won our case by a landslide on 24 hour notice!

Built for this exact moment

This is for the spouse who has decided the marriage is over, and wants a soft landing. Fair split. No court. No war.

This is for anyone who wants a clear head before they call a lawyer.

This service is not for the spouse who wants to run to an attorney and start racking up insane bills while your marriage is breaking down.

Questions before you book

Is this legal advice?

No. I’m a consultant, not your attorney. Nothing here creates an attorney-client relationship.

Is this confidential?

Yes. This is a private, one-on-one session between us.

What if I’m not sure I’m ready?

Take the Divorce Readiness Assessment first. It takes a few minutes and points you toward what you actually need.